Upcoming Offerings
An Undefended Heart
Sundays January 12th-March 9th 2025
6:30-8:30pm ET on Zoom
In this unique class, we’ll work with the essential elements of Nonviolent Communication as our foundation, attuning ourselves to the power of curiosity, self-responsibility, and empathy so that our communication can be as connecting as possible.
From there, we’ll explore additional practices for skillfully inviting ourselves and others into the present moment, generating a richer and more authentic bridge between our worlds. There’s a fluidity and boundlessness to these practices that make this class non-traditional as an NVC approach.
Together we’ll cover:
* Cultivating a more compassionate reality through the understanding of universal human needs.
* Empathic listening. Learning to attune to the feelings and needs of ourselves and each other.
* Authentic Presencing. Learning to more confidently speak to what’s true for us in the moment.
* Unlearning unhelpful communication behaviors.
* Boundary-setting & receiving.
* Connective apologies & repair.
… and much more
Class structure:
Each class typically includes a brief grounding meditation to settle us into the call, a short check-in amongst participants, a discourse of the evening's topic, time for practice in small break-out groups or pairs, and the opportunity for a Q & A.
Homework: There will be between 1-2 hours of homework between sessions. Most weeks, the homework will include a practice call with another participant.
Please note:
If you think you'll miss more than two of the ten sessions, my request is that you refrain from signing up until a later date when the course might suit your schedule better. Because this work can feel vulnerable at times, consistency for the group is an important factor in cultivating a trusting and intimate class environment.
Exchange: $380
To sign up, please email me at lyndseyjoharrington@gmail.com
Past Offerings
An Undefended Heart
Online, Every Second Thursday May 18th-September 21st 6:30-9pm ET
In this unique class, we’ll work with the essential elements of Nonviolent Communication as our foundation, attuning ourselves to the power of generosity, curiosity, and self-responsibility when it comes to our language. From there, we’ll explore additional practices for skillfully inviting ourselves and others into the present moment, asking potent questions that can generate a richer and more authentic connection. There’s a fluidity and boundlessness to these practices that make this class non-traditional as an NVC approach.
Together we’ll cover:
* Cultivating a blameless reality through the understanding of universal human needs.
* Empathic listening. We’ll explore how we can attune ourselves to the feelings and needs of ourselves and others regardless of what’s being said.
* Authenticity practice. Lovingly examining and transcending our default people-pleasing behaviors to help give voice to what's really here.
* Living beneath our stories and judgements to more fully *own* our experience.
* Working with anger in a way that’s connecting, rather than destructive.
* Compassionate boundary-setting.
* How to apologize well.
* And much more!
Class structure:
Each class typically includes a brief grounding meditation to settle us into the call, a short check-in amongst participants, a discourse of the evening's topic, time for practice in small break-out groups or pairs, and the opportunity for a Q & A.
Homework: There will be between 1-2 hours of homework between sessions. Most weeks the homework will include a practice call with another participant.
Please note:
- If you think you'll miss more than two of the ten sessions, my request is that you refrain from signing up until a later date when the course might suit your schedule better. Because the nature of this work can be vulnerable, consistency for the group is an important factor in developing a trusting and intimate class environment.
Beyond People-Pleasing
Online, Sunday June 25th, 12pm-2pm ET
What do we mean when we say “people-pleasing”? Examples include saying “yes” when we mean “no”, saying or doing things that feel wrong for us just to make other people happy, staying in uncomfortable situations longer than we want to, feeling immense anguish when people are upset with us, having difficulty setting boundaries, having difficulty asking for help, the list goes on…
As we people-pleasers tend to recognize, the behavior can be a helpful social tool in some ways, and a profound hindrance in others. On one hand, it can support our safety and security by contributing to some level of harmony between ourselves and another, but on the other hand, it can block us from our authenticity, deny us our agency, and lead us to circumstances where our needs aren’t likely to be met. People-pleasing as a default usually has roots that extend back into childhood (or further), and the behavior can become so blended into our patterns of interpersonal relating that it can be difficult (and even terrifying) to imagine doing things differently.
Together we’ll be exploring a way beyond people-pleasing that allows us to live more authentically, without sacrificing kindness and care for others. Drawing upon methodologies such as Circling and Nonviolent Communication, this workshop helps us get in touch with compassion and historical context for our inner people-pleaser, while also lovingly and playfully inviting us into a more authentic territory together. We’ll be working with structured, beginner-friendly exercises for speaking from our honest experience, learning to identify what’s most alive for us in-the-moment, and then learning how to share it more easily.
$50
Beyond People-Pleasing
In-Person at North Node (Kingston, NY) Wednesday May 10th 6:00-8:00pm ET
What do we mean when we say “people-pleasing”? Examples include saying “yes” when we mean “no”, saying or doing things that feel wrong for us just to make other people happy, staying in uncomfortable situations longer than we want to, feeling immense anguish when people are upset with us, having difficulty setting boundaries, having difficulty asking for help, the list goes on…
As we people-pleasers tend to recognize, the behavior can be a helpful social tool in some ways, and a profound hindrance in others. On one hand, it can support our safety and security by contributing to some level of harmony between ourselves and another, but on the other hand, it can block us from our authenticity, deny us our agency, and lead us to circumstances where our needs aren’t likely to be met. People-pleasing as a default usually has roots that extend back into childhood (or further), and the behavior can become so blended into our patterns of interpersonal relating that it can be difficult (and even terrifying) to imagine doing things differently.
Together we’ll be exploring a way beyond people-pleasing that allows us to live more authentically, without sacrificing kindness and care for others. Drawing upon methodologies such as Authentic Relating and Nonviolent Communication, as well as Attachment Theory, this workshop helps us get in touch with compassion and historical context for our inner people-pleaser, while also lovingly and playfully inviting us into a more truthful territory. We’ll be working with structured, beginner-friendly exercises for speaking from our honest experience, learning to identify what’s most alive for us in-the-moment, and then learning how to share it more easily.